oe np nana Swe ES icles eae TO * “PAGE BI ‘Service Fore Patients . - A new service that will offer advice and show. saniple protheses that are available on the market today for those who have undergone breast surgery (mastectomy) has been un- dertaken by the B.C. and Yukon Division of the Canadian Cancer + Society. The display operates in the divisional office of the Cancer Society in Vancouver and is open lo. anyone’ who wishes to discuss prablems and see the, full range of protheses thal can be obtained, and,find out where they’ can‘ be purchased. -Yukon Division, Volunteers who. themselves’ .. have keen mastectomy patients are in attendance tohelp. A similar display - is operated at the B.C. Cancer Institute in Vancouver for people whe are referred to the Instilule. The Cancer Sociaty : hopes to open another display as a service to women on. Van- couver Island shortly. - Pamphlets and information about cancer can be obtained free by writing to: “B.C, and Canadian Cancer Society, 896 West Eighth Avenue, Vancouver or 857. Caledonia, Victoria, B.C. - ou ean seratch mahogany -stvatches from your wood: "work woes by following this al an ~method, Paint the scratches ~Nwith fodine, Latar go aver the oe nthe. surface. with furniture polish, This will eliminate any ~ Noticeable defects, For ebony ‘urniture,; use black liquid shoe fish or black eyebrow pen- iL” Wipe with a furniture vt polish cloth, ae one _ Now you can “write off" ink stains fromball-point pens by fallowing these suggestions, Sponge the stain repeatedly with acetone or amyl acetate {available at most drugstores); do not use acetoneon acetate, arnel, dynel or verel, Washing often‘sets some ball-paint ink stains,’ Cuticle remover’ will remove ball-point ink from Teather goods, * * * , Grease stains can be gross; yek you can remove. them _ with grace. You can help eiim- ‘inate such stains from syn- thetic and cotton clothing by pouring a little Ajax All Pur- pose Cleaner, full strength, on the stain, Rub it in and: wash the garment.as usual. Repeat the procedure a few times for especially stained . areas, THE HERALD, ‘LETTER(FROM — MASSET, . By Elvira €. Bryant, sree tee : This week we are back to bare roads and walkways once again, I must say this is one thing that I really enjoying in this part of the world - not ‘having towear boots for months alt a-time, Today most of the snow having gone fram all of the D.N.D. playing field, many men have started back ‘at their jogging. (Some use the fields while’ others’ jog along the roads,) 7 Yesterday a copy of the Victorian was sent to me by my sister, It had been a long while now since the publication of ‘Victoria Times: and Victoria Colonist was stopped by a strike, and ,apparently this paper isenow. being well sup- ported. There tas a interesting article" by, James’ Milord en- titted, '"Everyman’s. Island”. My eye Was‘cdiglt by the litle above the cpntinualion which sald, ‘Indians’ too ‘can’ be corrupted by too much power,’ . The following ;quote from” Erich Fromm is worth reading, “The person. wha has not freed himself from the ties to blood and oj] isnot yet! fully born as a human being; his capacity for loveand reason are crippled; he does not experience himself nor 7 his fellows in their and. his own human reality.” _ * eloth.’” You' : Free pick-up - and dalivary SMILE *S :HOST teaturas General Motors -“and other fine cars. All major a credit cards honared. t ume r 635-6155 _ 4630 Lakelse Ave. ; When we sarve you, we smile. And when you deal with HOST, you smile. Because we're the > Gar rental people that pul a liltle extra into every- “thing we do for you. We rent clean, new -, Chevrolets and other fine cars — full-size, — .gompact and sub-compact — at good, iowprices. . _ And |hat's plenly to be happy about. Come to *.... HOST for your next rertal car. ‘ I’ be glad you did. ‘-one.often wonders what ‘hap- | MacKays ; ” Milord “states,“Any Kind of nationalism, whether it is that of the Quebecois, the super- . patriotic, gung-ho Yankee style vis-a-vis Viel Nam, or the madness of the Third Reich, it is all of the same dangerous ‘In order to get power and retain it Telstoy declared “‘t is necessary to love power; bul love of power is not connected with goodness, but with qualities which are the opposite of goodness, such as pride, cunning, curelty,.. True peace has reciprocal confidence as its, basis.’* . In/-my own opinion land claims should be paid to nalive people and the councils allowed to handle’ the distribution of theirown moneys. However the . day must come when we areall subject to the same lawsof the country and there are no longer. — such things as reserves. This would eliminate the slatus and non-stalus argument, it would have us all paying a fair share of taxes on jand and persona-4 income, and would eradicate of. the current dissension, |" At the present timé much” more assistance is given to the native youngsters altending _ school who live on a reserve, ” thanis ever given to any person in the ordinary stream of society, . This : “resentment” would not be there once. all * peoples were under onesystem. - Tt is these who see how such _- money. is spent and wasted thal aids frielion of thought, “Not all “waste; but it-is-a well-known - fact that people only appreciate. ay able.to distribute the reserve land to‘faniilies in lots, and the. “properties should be. surveyed and taxed just as_all othe lands “are. °: This would allow native ‘area if such was the wish. 1, really feel the time hascome for, ‘such ‘arrangments to come an being: at i should be sufficlently advanced “~"gharacler that matters and I ‘must say that good manners do. help. In much of teday's society people to move away from the .. ds {8 - 7 particularly the ingredipnts: for be an,,,honey , granda and’ cracked | dwe,, wheal bread) Learning ‘about ° TERRACE, B.C. By Lawrence E. Lamb, M.D. DEAR DR. LAMB — I read your column every day with | preat interest. Most recently, ve noticed how many people are sa concerned with their - sexual inadequacies, ete., and so many wilh regard .to the elimax in either the. man or the woman. [ am sa woman of 32 years. with two children a and, am hap- , y to say,, Dr, Lamb ave nO SeX- ual problems, but it dées ac- cur to me, how many people have taken into consideration cleanliness and desirability? A bath or shower . before, retiring for both parties does help body nice smelling, clean and sleek really does make the male in-her life more - amorous, The same goes for men. I, myself, do nol partic- ularly enjoy climbing ‘inlo bed with a sweaty, unshaven man and hope to be made _love to. : or Also, I don't think tog many | people give too much thought - about how they look. when they goto bed. Wearing the top of your husband’s pa- jams isn’t really too sexy. A woman. is supposed to be _ feminine, she may not keep it on long once she gets Into bed, but that's not the point. She lovks. desirable befare ever getting inlo bed. - I truly believe if people want the most oul of their sex life it’s up to them to put out their best: efforts. I know it may not sound like much, but most men really do go for a woman, who keeps herself . neat, clean, and as sexy-look- ing a5 possible. For men, it's ‘the same story. Who likes to make love to someone whose ‘breath is so foul it’s hard to even get close to them? In this day with Loothpaste, to raise at least a lille * . desire. A woman keeping her mouthwash, deodorant feminine hygiene sprays an perfume, there i3 no excuse Oo r people to ga ta bed smell-" ing like -the barn and expect to enjoy a’serious sexual ex- perience. : DEAR READER — Well ut. Many women in particu- ar share your view regard- ing men's habits. And, they mean using a bar of soap for openers. I receive a number of letiers complaining partic- warly about their husband coming to bed smetting like a brewery. Women who do not drink especially feel that this is - degrading to them. DEAR DR. LAMB — My. roblem concerns my hus- and. It takes him 45 minutes at a minimum, usually at least an hour, to reach a climax. He is in his early 205 and is a very healthy, strong athletic man. In facl, he is very active in college athletics. Co He has no trouble other than the prolonged time It takes him toreach a climax. He can stay fully aroused for hours, but no matter how ex- cited he becomes it still takes him a long time. . _ His scrotum appears to be very full and feels as if it has excess fluid In it‘all the,time. — » Could you please: give us - some information as to whal could cause this problem? . He doesn't want to see a doctor here: because his father is a doctor and all the doctors in-our town are per- sonal friends. If he has same ideas as-to what is causing this problem, | think he wi go. [ ho # you can help us. DEA EADER — You are. describing a very rare WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 27, 1974 Cleanliness andsex sexual system. "Usually ejaculalsry incom-_ tence Is nearly complete. e man is unable to ejacul- ate during the usual-sex act but is able to do. so. under. ather circumstances. Once he is able to perform ‘normally or even partially, the viciaus cycle is broken and the prob- jem hegins to disappear. - I would guess that he does have a varicocele which is simply dilated veins near the testicles. That may be what au have noticed. He praba- bly should see a urologist just to be sure he doesn't have a chranically infected prostate gland, This is not the same thing as the enlarged pros- tate that older men have, but rather it is related to the prostate infections s9 cam: mon in young men, Just to sure you dort misunderstand me, prostatitis in young men is common wilhout having ’ yenereal disease so [ am not problem known as ejaculato- . ry incompetence. [t 1s the ex- act opposite problem to pre- mature. ejaculation. It is not, very well nown because It is so rare, And, I might as well tell you both at the beginning that the difficulty is-usually an unrecognized psychologi- cal problem. It commonly has nothing to do with any dis- ease or abnormality of the iraplying that this is his prab- lem, There are a lot of dif- ferent bacteria that can in- vade the prostate gland and set up an infection. This does sometimes affect a man’s 7 ) The .. ~ Private a Life “Causes for ejaculatory in- competence are believed to he related to some severe sexual trauma. A common type of example is great fear. in. getting the woman preg- nant. This does not need to be a conscious fear. The un- conscious mind then -inter- feres with ejeculation under circumstances that could lead to pregnancy. Masters. and Johnson re- ported treating men who had this. problem because. they were caught masturbating by their parents when they were youngslers and were so severly punished that even as adults th ejaculation. Tis Is.a pitiful’ example of sexual ignorance’ by’ parents with a disastrohs elfect on the child's later life ard sexual happiness. > I realize you are both in'a bind with this problem, And, I: can. well understand: your husband's reluctance to seek’ help locally. If he should have a, psychological block be- . . cause of some early ex: rience or aspect of his rela- Fonship with his parents, this would be almost impossible - for him.’ Then, there is the problem of finding anyone who would: understand ‘the problem weil enaugh to help. . you both. | have come Lo‘ the: conclusion that you should: write to Dr. Masters at- the ‘Reproductive Biology Research Foundation in St Louis, Mo. Explain your prob- - lem in the. letter. and- ask’: where you can go for some. - direct help, There are some. : teams.of people trained in St... Louis around the country who could help in.‘such a: ” situation. The success rate in treating such problems -has been very good. rer -On the off chance that. it: should be a chronic infection. affecting his normal release mechanism, he might wish to see a urologist locally ‘and if he tells him ‘thal he deesn’t want his dad to know about it’. or anyone else, I'm sure his confidence would be. respected, 2 Above all, don't worry : about il, Excess.anxiety will only make matters worse. © Relax and enjoy the feeling of baing close to each ather. - And, keep in mind thatitisa . problem that can be solved. (NEWSPAPER ENTERPRISE ASSNJ- |” Send your questions to’ Or. Lamb, fn care of this newspaper,:. * - P.O. Box 1851, Aadio Gily Station,’ Naw York, N.Y. 10019. For @ copy” of Dy, Lamb's bookla! on impo- - tence, send 50 cents te tha same address and ask for “impotence” - booklet, CO Ts Terrace and District Coop for , many years, I never did gettoa - meeting since the, meetings were always on the evenings that a group.of us entertained: at Skeenaview. Now perhaps I'll be able to. do something _about.all those things thal: are -not to be found, an the shelves: , “the operation’ should heip, ° pened to even the “please”, & “thank-you”, pardon me" or‘ even ‘excuse me". Are the parents englecting to bring up . «their youngsters with these gracés? Or do we havetogel the ooo. parents back to learn te social graces? _- Ina recent letter a Iriend who teaches states, “There's quite a number of changes on the staff for.next semester-some couldn't ’ (atand it-for the whole year- business-they’ make more money,'?. Not only might it pay “more, but. yon might even be ‘working where at least you woul -.d be respected, Today's youth “Mn many eases are very rude, have no respect for anyone elese and could care less about