: / ; i \ 2 Former Terrace resident Heather Bellamy stopped in town last week on her way to a new job in Port Hardy after spending two years in-Pakistan, ‘helping Afghanistan refugees fleeing the war in their country. While international politics dominated the headlines as the U.S.S.R. agreed to start pulling out troops, Bellamy: discovered the personal is political in her experiences as a woman living in ‘a fundamentalist Moslem com- munity, by-Charlynn Toews Three to four million people - have entered Pakistan and another million have gone into Iran since the Mojaheddin guerillas’ fight against the _ Afghan army escalated with Soviet intervention in 1979, Pakistan has supported the U.S.-supplied Mojaheddin and allowed them to operate from Pakistan. Even with the recent withdrawal of troops, a cease- fire is not assured. In fact, the same day Bellamy was interview- ed about her two years in Islamabad, guerillas there an- nounced plans to attack Kabul, the capital city of Afghanistan. Canada has been providing more than $20 million annually in humanitarian aid for Afghan refugees in Pakistan, and may increase this amount until the conditions for their return im- proves. Letter As a World Relief Canada volunteer, Bellamy worked with refugee women in Islamabad for two years, teaching them ' English as a Second Language. She explained that while refugees in camps received food and public health assistance from United Nations commit- tees and relief organizations,. this group of urban refugees were financially able to take care of themselves but: needed social services. “Since many of them wanted to immigrate to the States, Australia, and other English- speaking countries, language classes were started. What began as a small, grassroots kind of program grew, with over 500 students a day now going through the program,”’ she said. Bellamy had been interested in the Middle East for some time before taking the volunteer posi- tion, but was not’ prespared for the dramatic differences in religion and culture she found, She worked: only with the women because it was not cul- turally acceptable to associate with men. These Islamic. refu- gees followed their traditional roles, with women staying in the home and wearing concealing chadors, ‘‘Afghan society is controlled by the Mojaheddin, who want women more conser- vative and are becoming more fundamental in their’ religion,’’ Bellamy said. To show respect for their traditions, Bellamy and © other ESL teachers wore the chalwar chameez, or the draped dress and loose-fitting pants considered ‘‘acceptable for modern women.” _ Not only did her dress change, she said she also. ‘‘walked with my nose to the pavement,” stayed indoors after dark, stop- ped cycling and jogging and restricted her hiking, sat separately with women and children at public events and cafes, and used the back door of the post office. ‘‘I spent the first year and a half being very angry. It was very difficult — to have to suddenly strip yourself of all the rights you take for granted as a Canadian woman.” She said even the limited orientation she received to learn how to behave in an acceptable manner made her feel patroniz- ed, like a child, “I was told, ‘Don’t sit like that, don’t act like that,’ like a child who has to grow into the culture.’’ Realizing that women hoping to emigrate would also face such culture shock, the ESL classes included information on West- ern habits, like dating. ‘‘One woman said she’d shoot any man coming to her door to ask her daughter on a date,’’ she found it so shocking. Day-to-day activities like making appointments, spelling names in’ English, work ethics, visiting and child care were Record calls for examination To the Editor; This (Kitimat-Terrace and District Labour) Council has studied the decision of Dave Parker’s ministry to award the timber rights for the Takla- Sustut area to Prince George. We have noted his comments on the Dease Lake extension of the BCR and on the layoff of workers in Hazelton. We have also reviewed his failure to penalize Mac-Blo for its prac- tices on the Queen Charlottes and followed reports on the harvesting in the North Kalum area. His record is less than ad- mirable, Qn numerous occasions, statements have been made that there is a threat of wood supply shortages in the province. Yet no action was taken against Mac~- Blo for waste on the Charloites, -and reports from North Kalum indicate extensive failure to con- trol waste. Further, export of raw logs is proceeding at an enormous rate from: Stewart despite the original com- mitments by the firms involved to construct certain manufactur- ing facilities by as early as 1986. Why are these things allowed to happen in light of the fall down of adequate timber supplies? This has been defended on the basis of preservation of jobs. Numerous reports have come to us that wages and working con- ditions in the North Kalum Icave much lo be desired. There needs to be an inquiry into the prac- tices in this area which will cover all aspects of the harvest from waste to export to wages, safety and living conditions. It does not appear that there is a sound management plan for B.C,’s forest resource. In fact, if you add the reality of land claims and the pressure for preservation of specific ecologically significant areas (Moresby, the Khutzeymateen), the situation appears chaotic. Even once a decision is made, as with Moresby, the follow- through is not carried out. On the Queen ‘Charlottes, the pro- vincial failure to live up to its commitments is costing many construction jobs as between $40 No Vehicle? O Vehicle: Do you have problems with picking up prescriptions, grocerlas, appliances or anything else? 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Paul Johnston, President Kitimat- Terrace and District Labour Council -Tervace Review — Wednesday, July 13, 1988 7 _ "culture shock in ‘embattled d Afghenistan ue Strong friendships grew among teachers and students of English during Heather Bellamy's two years In Islamabad, Pakistan. The former Terrace resident, second from left, is pictured here with mother and daughter ESL students and a volunteer from Calgary. discussed. Some women found the idea of day care unaccept- able, although those without children said they would likely look for work outside the home in their new countries. As for » socializing, ‘‘Here it is nothing to spend four, five, six hours visiting,’’ Belllamy said. ‘‘And if a relative comes to visit, or a member of the family is sick, the women just drop everything.” ESL students-would drop classes for weeks at a time to attend to family matters, such as births, weddings and funerals, and return expecting to pick up where they left off. ‘‘If they were half way to the market and met someone who was on their way to visit them they’d say, ‘Come over for tea,’ and walk back home with them. They have a saying, ‘A guest is the friend of God.’ ” Within the more restrictive lives of women that she found, Bellamy saw some very positive aspects. ‘People come first with them, and I grew from that. | “hope I can become more unselfish in that way.” ‘*Women here are expected to continued on page 14 Sodessseseeseseaooooacess, Machine and hand knitting yarns . FIRST QUALITY LOW PRICES For free sa chad. write or phone PO. Box 9091, Saskatoon, . 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