Page 10, The Herald, Tuesday, October 16, 1979. . These Kids Kid You Not _ By Abigail Van Buren. 1979 by Chicago Tribune-N.¥. News Sync. Inc. DEAR ABBY: I fust read the letter from the 14-year-old boy who was afraid he had VD and didn’t want to tell his parents, and I just had to write. Lam a 15-year-old girl who had a similar experience. I thought I had VD. leried for days, Finally I decided the only thing I could do was to tell my mother. Abby, that was the hardest thing 1 ever had to do. When J told her we both cried I begged her not to tell my father, but she said she had io. Some’ pretty cruel words were exchanged amang the three of us. The next seven days were the toughest I've ever ex- perienced, but it also proved how much my parents really loved me. They stood by me the whole time, When we finally got the doctor's report, we were relieved to learn that it wasn't VD—it was another kind of infection. My friends thought I was crazy for telling my mother, but it was the best decision I ever made. It really brought us closer together, and we got to understand each other better. Abby, please keep encouraging kids to take their heavy ~ problems to their parents. It’s nol always the easiest way, but it's the smartest, Thanks for letting me have my say. I helieve you really do care. . BEEN THROUGH A LOT DEAR BEEN: Thanks tor the testimonial. Read on for a letter [rom a girl who waan't as lucky as you. DEAR ABBY: Thank you for that letter in your column warning kids about VD. 1 wish I had seen something like that when I was 14. Lama 1éyear-old girl who just underwent a very painiul and serious operation as a result of gonorrhea. [had to have # hysterectomy. Abby, I don’t “sleep around.” [ have only one boyfriend. [also have a very ugly seven-inch scar down my stomach. The worst part is knowing that I will never in my life beable to bear my own children, . Not many kids realize how serious VD can be. Please in- form your readers of this. And if you print my letter, please don't use my name. Thank you. DEAR ABBY: The 67-year-old wife of the impotent 61-year-old “spiffy dresser, great dancer, and big spender” has @ lot to learn. (She can’t understand why “the other woman in his life” finds him so attractive.) There ake literally tlGugends of women who would ‘be overjoyed to have such wcatpanton, especially if he can't do anything in bed! What a pieasure it would be to have a niari take me out and show me a good lime, and not wrestle me to the floor when the evening is over! Another thing the poor wife doesn't seem to know is that many a man who is impotent at home is a powerhouse with women other than his wife. THE VOICE OF EXPERIENCE CONFIDENTIAL TO “THE END JUSTIFIES. THE MEANS": No way. To record a conversation without advis- ing the parties concerned that they are being recorded ia! both illegal and unethical. Being deceitful in an attempt to get the goods on someone you distrust makes you no l¢sg, deceitful, Do you wish you had more friends? For the secret of popularity, get Abby's new booklet: “How To Be Popular; You're Never Too Young or Too, Old." Send $1 with along, self-addressed, stamped {28 cents) envelope to Abby, 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hills, Calif, 90212, Your Individual Horoscope Frances Drake ARIES ; (Mar, 21 to Apr. 19) a . A fresh approach to a work problem brings results. A co- worker may goof off on the job, but you'll make progress on your own. TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) CaF ‘A direct approach serves, you well in a romantic situatlon, Don’t evade issues or controversial toples. Be willing to face realities. GEMINI (May 21 to June 20) ae A partner or roommate may not want to pitch in, but still you'll accomplish much around the house. Do it yourself for success CANCER (June 21 to- July 22) LT a] A alight mixup in com munication back. 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Show loved ones you're willing to do your part, ' . YOU BORN TODAY have a natural affinity for the business world, but may not care to handle details, You can commercialize your ar- tistic talents and are often ' found in businesses allled with the arts, _ the WIZARD OF ID By Brant Parker and Johnny Hart ACTUALLY... WE PONT GET | TeO MANY Hepps IN HERE WEARING CHARTREUSE . * 'T ‘ . ARENT YoU ROBBING HagDF ¥ SWASHBUCKLING, —— DEVIL-MAT CARE ATTITUPE P HERMAN, “'d tell your father, but he probably lent you the hat.” By Johnny Hart WAT ABUT YT eM 7. [te let le Ne Y lea a — DOONESBURY ANY WERD FROM YOUR Mt ANDI BOFREND FEAR THE tt ) i, Hh