ca hie Aen SERRE TDS Bre _. DEAR .ANN _ LANDERS: Please don’t consider this a put- - down. I just want to tell you that that 1 think you are missing a good bet, A person of your in-. fluence should be bending every effort to-get colleges to include some.courses on what married _ Mifeis-jall about, The high divorces rate in our country is a , -and getting worse, Why? Because young people! “haveno idea of what to expect. ‘Thay can’t learn anything from “their”. parents’. marriage =peeause it’s a. different world: today than it was 25 years ago.. That crooning lieutenant in the white® pants. doesn’t always. ” make the perfect husband. “<< Enlightened instruction on, everyday Hving would mean a deal) more - than or - high schools now have them. e also done:a good bit of - ~* Yeaturing in high schools, and I “ Rnow. what the kids want to faow because of the questions - they. ask, ‘They are eager to “learn what makes a marriage work... Invarlably. someané wants to know how many times “VE been married. Wher I tell + them I'm still with the original cynodel’ after 34 years, they “".getually ‘cheer! It’s funny,’ but “jt's \sad, too, that a. lasting ~ marriage is such a novelty that it rates an accolade, ’ “+: DEAR ANN LANDERS: ‘You frequently ‘print letters about ople wha are struggling with problems of overweight, eX- - cessive. smoking - and alcoholism. This letter will be a "Hittle: different. -T married a lovely gal whose t family has a heavy history of diabetes — three generations, to “be exact. My wife tends toward obesity and I insisted that she. atch: her «weight. and be checked regularly, Meanwhile, I am a health nut slim, exercise regularly and ike pride in. my ‘physical ‘onditlon. By now you're © Oo LAN GEWS: CANT: G0 TOO RUSSEA . ew wrinkle: in the Suviel- vish emigration is the plight those: Uhl emigrated. and ward. decided they didn't Helo, The USSR does nel tend io admit: back” any Javie| Jews who emigrated to ae] according ta: TASS, the ical news agency of the ie, Union, , Acreport, fom eecaumriad. bye the idled Press said abuut 250. rie! dews whe tell Israel are won Cieana, petitioning for + oright le reurn.te Russia, "ASSeheld, that itis precisely fel Aviv’s. false propaganda do promtixes that are per- avtly urging Jewish families cleave for Tsrach ‘The news mies eharged thal “Israeli ‘ ' ‘morethana little concerned ie rt routine check-up last week and the lests show that I have diabetes. 1 am 20 pounds un- derweight and no one in our family hashad the disease, 1am more furious than concerned. Isn't this the rottenest, most unlair thing you've ever heard of? — Monroe, La. DEAR M.L.: Similar things have happened in families where the non-smaker gets lung cancer ard the nicotine addict goes scot-free, Such are the ironies of life, but adds are stacked heavily against it. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I'm a izyear old girl who isn't writing to ask what to do about acne or how lo gel a certain guy to-notice me. What | want lo know is why people don't pay more attention to their elderly relatives in nursing homes. I work at this place weekends, and‘it’s heartbreaking the way so many of thesé darling old people hope day after day that someone will come to see them and nobody shows up. Of course, some are forgetfuland a litde confused, but they are lonesome, I have chatted for hours with these dear people and they are so grateful for my time and atlention. Thope every person who has & relative. or even knows of someone who is in,a nursing horne will clip this column as a reminder. — Young and Caring DEAR CARING: Hundreds, maybe thousands of old folks are going lo haye unexpected visitars soon because of you. Some peaple just need to be reminded. Thank you, dear. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I started to-read your column when I] was 1), I didn’t think I'd need you until I was at least 16, but here am, two years early. I talk too much, The kids at school call me Blabbermouth. I hate the name but I.can’t keep quiet. Please help me. — Shunned "DEAR S.: Most “Blab- - bermouths" are afraid if they don’t. say. something people will think they are stupid. Nothing could be further from the truth. Farce yourself. to listen. REALLY listen. You will be amazed at what you can learn when your mouth is shut. 5 wa Whe Bent teereee ‘Whai’s Happening in the authorities kiyow very well they ure tuable ta provide ihe imigrants with nermal fiving vonditions.” a YoOOTH ONE CIRCLE . : ‘Heenly-ane yautl, call from “he Central Seventh-day Ad- vermis! chureh in Sav Paule,- Brazil were killed ina bus-car-. inidge: accident... The youth were rehirning heme frem a Witiah-vide Youth Copgréss held by the ehureh when’ their bus callided with a’ truck while erossilp, i bridge near the cily WW Lages. Foarieen other youth on the-bus were hospitalized in eriical canditian. SUR TIE AMERICANS NEED Tw) CHANGE LIFE STYLE LA statement released by the executive Cammittee of the . 7 AS you know by now, we changed alot of things fast year. We gave you 2 new return, a new Guide, several new deductions and a few new rules. And quite honestly, we were about your reaction to it all. * (And very, very interested in your opinions.) ; Weli, now that we've had time (p really look back at it and assess it honestly, il appears that most taxpayers did nat searnto find It too difficult. The error rate did not ac- _.colarate greatly or changa drastically from formar years. probably guessed It. | took a KILLED EHO POUAX FACTS... This all-vool, lightweight wersted jacket: banishes heat-feel with its cogl, cool, solid shade of flax. There's a rab wkd National Council of Churches ‘outlines: steps lobe taken by “governments and individuals relating lo energy crisis. En- liiled- “Moral Demands of the, Energy Crisis." the slatement emphasizes’ the necessity to. make changes: in‘ lifestyles."’ “Per -capita," it” says, “We consume mure food, possess .. mare autamobiles, produce more non-essential products: ihan unyolher: peaple on. the “face of the earth. | Quastions nusl be raised alternatives ‘an uur economie and) our -entire cure must be explored,” * AUSTG [WORKSHUPS OF:. FERED VE 20 LOCATIONS THIS SUMAIER ‘ taheran’ parish “musicians can choose berween 20 colleges, universities, and seminaries for yf. Second, ifyou'ra sill confused or something just © doesn't seam to work, phone. The number af your .) own District Taxation Office is below andat the _ end of that number thera are people whose anly job is to help _ taxpayers with problems, by telephone, And on Mondays and ~* ‘Tyasdays phone lines are open ‘til 6 p.m. Sodon'thesltata. ” Hyou live outside the office area, calll the Operator and _ ask lor Zenith 0-4000. She will automatically. connect you to . your own District Taxation Office. Remamber, all callsare- “from $80 1a $10, 7 SSC ILEPTUILE - (RESOLVE MIDDLE BAST - clover lapel with a reverse gorge and Rubin Bros. of Montreai used World of Religion 2; Keith bearing re workshops — in hymnody | and liturgical music this summer, The workshops will, beheld in Canada and the U.S. and: will “include seciions of choral and orgati music, Total cesis range GANUT : Israeli’ peaple vutght not ta “Jul” themselves into thinking Seripture © that praphevic quoiations gan. resalve : the ‘current situation in Israel, says * Jesuit Priest John MeLaughlin: ‘It the Israeli state were’ jo - ~ collapse because of agpressian, ihose Scriplural quotalions could be saved by “symbolic _ imerprelations, Bul that, would. supply small comfort, lo- the Isracli people who, he says, _ deserve perhaps mare than any. eo . “yubmitted aa resolution’ to) the pockels have 4 centre panel and rer eee ee we, wet (ther to‘live in freedom and securily: und sovereign. in- dependence. oo Be | CONTROL AY PUTLOSOPBRY OF DEATI WIL? pO YOR THINK?) =. Claiming that the British are sbecoming a “disappearing : : ‘yare, Cardinu: John Heemin Jartacked abortion and the pill at “au Miss for Life rally in London, sas. : Baptist “pastor has chareh. awhich © vealfirm Gai’, authority - She lists Christ as pressumes . lO ~ ghe head of every many man is jhe head uf the waman and [he “-¢hildren to be in subjection 10 “ah dir pareuls, inthe Lord, c.abbler feature slilching in rusi interest. The slacks are in the same shade of rust. ppington, “wife: ofa order uf lopwell,-- ; vay : “Man was nol made for the Swomard. bul the “woman for nun.” bui thé woman is the Saglory-af vie man and men and - t ~ywomen “ate: ‘dependan| upon "2. @aghother-to.the glory of Gad, tn” from edges for additional Square patch i WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 6; 1974 WHITE GANE WEEK Loss.of sight should not stop anyone from being handy | pa around the house. Most of the newly blinded adults who lake instruction on home mangement Ihrough their CNIB office have operated homes ° before. “Isa malter of getting - their confidence back,” ‘said CNIB District Administrator, Fred Koalenz, at 2 While Cane Week discussion about teaching blind people day to day skills - required in the hame, Many who have just lost their sight easily recognize by touch - pipes, plumbing fixtures and wires. Locating circuit breakers, changing fuses, repairing kilchen doing general lenance are taught when requested. “Women as well as men should know how to repair n kettle or ‘tighten loose screws,” Mr. Koalenz said. ” ‘Al CNIB centres, newly blind persons learn how lo manage. a kitchen, use a stove, and plan cooked meals. They are taught methods to make things sim- pler, For example, an casy way for a blind person to poach an egg is 10 crack the egg inlo a saucer and slide it into a metal ‘DINE OUT! Canadian & wae, Open” Mon. thru ' Desirable, 7 Affordable HOMES | 1043 HIGHWAY 25 TERRACE 635-4043. ulensils and - home -main- . e ut 635-6111 Exotic meals q Sunday Iau. to 10pm. ' i RESTAURANT “see us at —TWIN oe o—_T : ae A : mi ring which hasbeen placed in at an of water. That way egg? slays in one ppotand is easily.) removed. me poe Apartment living, which; involves making beds, cleaning’ and doing Ihe laurdry.as well, Is for men (oo. Home management; is only cne part of a program the skills of daily living. Braille, typing and while cane: mobility,are alsa taught, : Last, year 7,300 newly blind people in’ Carada look training .t0-adjust in their families, homes andé community, are This is -White.Cane Week," sponsored by -The’ Canadian* Council of: {he Blind: and. The Canadian National Insti{ule for the Blind. | - While, -they - are ‘stressing Whal training means 1a blind Canadians, they remind ° us that ¥ “ snleer assistance will . always be ‘welcome, . On the street, offer offer your arm and. a friendly greeling.* +. it Chines Foods Sat [0am to lam