AAA AORN wate eed ani mie oy sec TEE . for the purpose of carrying“on the work of his company, Unica Such: firms as- Crown: Zellerbach, B.C. Forest, Products, and Finning Caterpillar Company have encour - aged their top executives:to enroll in the nine day ‘course’. company alone has put 60 of its hey personnel through the Program. People are startled. The masks crack. As Mr. Wootlam. explains ‘it: People begin to open up and are “well with. this man, om « W ‘By JOHN MANNING ha by which .management can come human relationships, Executives from across Canada and the United Suites are attend- ing ‘encounter groups’ for the purpose of helping themselves w grow in self-understanding and thence in undersianding uf others. A former North Saanich resident, what is perhaps one of the most successfu! of all such programs in Canada. ; Mr. Woollam recently purchased Training Services. Ltd, startled when they see the shape. to hide behind. The masks crack... They begin to discover they have been listening to the voices of society and completely denying their own feelings.” “But,’? he explains, ‘There is anather type of individuality which attempts ; to work: with the assumption. that he «happens to life’. He sees the world through his own eyes,- not as he feels the world He gains a sense of his own worth which in an open way with others. He no longer hides behind a mask. He can listen to others and not be threatened by them.” Ray Woollam is a graduate of the National Training Laboratory Over the last fifteen years he has led more than 90 His associate and co-trainer, Jim Ward, was for six years Provincial Executive Director for the Canadian expects him ‘to see it. frees him to relate has to maintain face. of Maine. - encounter-type groups. Mental Health Association. Ona recent. course, Review Publisher John Manning was invited During the nine days he took written .notes of such conversations as the one that follows. This particular dialogue occurred on the sixth day when Arnold Winters, (for reasons to attend as a participant. .of privacy. participants names. in an executive with a nation wide ° life. He could cope with any situation... _ ; To the rest of the group he had appeared imminently successful: he wore expensive clothes, drove a Jaguar XKE sports car and exuded an air of serene confidence. On-first meeting him it appeared that he could cope with any situation. However, when speaking of his job and its responsibilities his face. showed little. emotion;. he seemed a man impervious to feeling. To the others in the 14 member group he described his wife “She was looked up to’ he said. It. was apparently a perfect partnership. They attended concerts together, played bridge with other Montreal. socialites and went skiing with their three children. It took six full days for the “group’ to.expose Arnold Winters: A series of question by fellow: participants, who spoke to him: as being. particularly attractive: “More candidly than he had ever: trated his “perfect’’ exterior. Arnold’s startling, to ‘say the least... | “Ever since you've come here you’ve been giving with the big ho-ho,’’ saidRay Woollam, ‘‘Why don’t you get off you backside and quit being the original ice Tan, How about it? if you had the guts what would you’ really like to talk about??? > "> There was a hush in thatroom. | Arnold’s first reaction. was to light a cigarette. The very sil- ence in the room became sound. Finally he = spoke: ‘When we wound up yesterday 1. was. ex- tremely depressed, I’ve~been listening to you other people. talk,- like you. Bob, about vour problems and what things really mean to’ you. It got home to me yesterday. I guess underneath it all I'm not really such a super as: -been' more. than. twenty. vears since. the first hesitant steps: in group dynamics were taken. Now,”in both Canadian and American business circles it is recognized as one of the most effective tools " man,’* to grips with the problems of Raymond Woollam is running the Maple Bay Inn near Duncan One of the defences they've learned He no longer this report have been changed) industrial firm, spoke About his They rarely argued. beer: spoken to in.his life, pene- They revealed that all-was not reaction to these questions ‘was Woollam: about your wife.’ Arnold: “1 don’t feel love for her.”’ ». **Nol™ : “Well, as [ see it, you're just trying to be her. You don't | sounds ; “He's letting **Maybe she’s genuinely exhausted with the idea of Sitting around and playing mother to a little boy who wants affection." He: begun That's not it at all!’? he said, his speech He sat a) RAY WOOLLAM A Waterfront View: Of Maple Bay Inn-Near Duncan back down in his chair: ++ That's not it at all... just don’t want her putting her arms around me. It. makes me feel uncomfortable.*: _. Silence. rest, _been said. suddenly triggered a latch. within. Arnold.. This man, who appeared for. the past ‘six days as calm ‘as ice, began to cry. The tears cascaded-down his face, He was forty “six years of uge, For the first time j in years he realized he had feelings of his -own, In that.moment of emation® he appeared to the’ rest of the group aS a man real and without pretence and he. knew it.) With some luck he might just-carry some understanding of-this and what. it. meant to. him. and: his wife and his job, into the future. He might just: learn to be and act The hawk.came tol. - The meaning of what had. “committee, transport commitlee” himself. te Arthur Taylor ‘Dies, In Sidney “Arthur. Ernest Taylor, : “Aged 81 years, passed. away at Rest Haven Hospital on March 30. resided on Resthaven Drive, Sid- ney: for the. past five years, Previous to this he lived in -Cardale,.. Manitoba. He leaves ter-in-law. Mrs. Frank Baker, and -brother-in-law, Mr. George Clack, Sidney; and several nieces and nephews-in England and’ c ada. ee .Mr.. Taylor. was a member of the. O0.A.P.0, No. 25, Sidney. Service was held:in the Sands. Funeral Chapel of Roses, Sidney : “© elating. Royal Oak Burial Park. “Ee a “you. Born in Norfolk, Engiand he has ~ his wife, Beatrice, at home, sis- ~ on Wednesday, April 2 with Rev.” Canon F.C. Vaughan-Birch offi-. Interment ‘was in the - 0. A.P.0. NOTES by PENSIONER “ec A three - member committee has considered twelve bus tours to the Mainland and up Island. Six of these tours willbe selec-: ted and -arranged for ‘suitable dates. For information contact Robert Thompson, chairman of this committee. Special rates for. all’paid up members.” - Age 66 years persons are now in. receipt of old age pensions; this new group would derive.a great deal of satisfaction: by giv-. ing some of their time and talent’ to ‘the administration and enter- tainment of the QAPO eranch in, Sidney... &. Wee need help on our: ‘welfare youth. in’ better recreation facilities.. All these topics can be carried ‘out if-a good. portion of the old age pensioners in Sidney will become aztive Branch, town council in the purchase ‘of suitable accomodation. - joyable: Irish songs. ‘held on April 3, when a movie and more xolunteers for our sick | Very interesting to all.: and visiting committee; a com- ° mittee to cooperate with our their effort towards “members of the Sidney ~ It has been. suggested that ‘a building fund be set up to aid our: At the last meeting a very en- ~ musical. entertainment © | was provided. and'a sing-song of. Bs Next monthly meeting will be. will feature'a trip up the British” Columbia coast, also.a debate is” scheduled ~ which : should. prove: - Besse QeaneE, Insurance “A the thought of Earthquake’ Insurance has crossed your. -. mind during” the: last week or two, perhaps we can help : Pérsonally, we | don’t -think. that . ‘Vancouver. Asland - is “going ‘to. slide “neath the.waves, “but if-it did; “and if you had Earthquake Insurance, it would be a comfort to know | _ that your loss was covered, (Hollow laughter). The cost of this’ comfort is small eneugh considering -the benefits |. which would accrue. The insurance company will send out ., a-diver to locate your property, and will notify any passing . __ Mermaids that it is for Rent. ~The cost is- $1.35 per. $1,000: of “insured value... wie. it your house is insured for $20, 000 the 3 year cost would be $27.00. : ey Consult John Bruce or Jack Naismith about this interesting, . Phenomenon, or indeed about any other insurance query. you. 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