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THE REVIEW a PAGE 3 Dear Imogene | I was divorced last year but am slowly getting back to ‘normal’ again I think. My nine-year-old son seems to be ‘adjusting well. My problem is that although my ex. really was rather a. rotten type, 'm-trying to make out to my boy that he was all right. Now friends say I should tell Bill just A BASKETFULL OF CHILDREN’S | EASTER FASHIONS for the spry young things Prices To Please ARRIVING DAILY FOR THE YOUNG AND LIVELY LOOK Dresses - Pants Suits FOR EASTER - -. Blouses - etc. SMASHING KNITS, PRINTS... for a new Easter Wardrobe. SIDN EY DRY G00 Ss are untidy years. They're tur-| Disappointment, ridicule, b In the midst of extreme pain, -moil-filled times, too, for the| misunderstanding can cause “ mental and physical Jesus youngster approaching young| very real pain as can Said, “Father forgive them for 2485 Beacon Ave 656-3523 “Hundreds of B.C. 3 bedrooms, 1066, sq. de - Rents. are soaring. 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Dear Solo Mom I feel. you. are so wise to maintain a good father- -image for your boy to cling to: He has enough to do living his life as it is now, without having to cope with any anti-Poppa propaganda from you - or any of your well-meaning friends. He is not yet old enough to understand all the reasons for your break-up, and shouldn’t be burdened with the details. If your ‘ex. really is that rotten (once you loved him enough to get married, remember!) let him-find out the truth. if you feel you must. when he’s old enough to grapple with, the -in- to give him. as worry-free and happy life-as vou can. H's his mentatheaith that matters most! Dear Imogene My thirteen-year-old leaves her room in such a terrible muddle all the time, and I don't know what to do about. it.. Apart from this. she’s a good girl. but her untidyness is getting me down. Her bedroom’s like a. pig-sty, honestly ! Dear Honestly I believe you! The early. teens adulthood, what with increasing pressures at schoo}, and personal relationships. that probably are becoming: more complicated all the time.- Your jeb is to be quietly firm without nagging. Lay down a few rules like not watching a show, .or going downtown till everything's been tidied- away. Make. sure -your daughter has enough drawer.and | Friday, Bont 9th - : DEEP COVE ~ CHALET - Buffet Luncheons: Te noon to 2:30 p.m. ~ Bufiet Dinners _ -6p.m. too p.m, Catering for... Be t Receiptions—Private Parties yor Information and Reservations . _ Phone 656- S541 - MODERN, by ‘Fmogene Paint-In.. using her choice of colours, could..be a big en- couragement to neatness. Be sure you Set your daughter a good example by keeping yourself muddle-free, and finally, patience parent! A few years from now, you'll: walk into her room and find miraculously, she’s found a place for everything - and it won't be the floor! ‘anesthetics, _BY JOHN SQUANCE It is’ the natural and human reaction in practically everybody -to avoid pain if possible, so it was hard to embrace the idea that pain. is. necessary to our development. ‘Yet. there is the fact that entry into the world is in pain and our leaving it, too. The _beginning and the ending of physical life. There are-many kinds of pain besides the ordinary” physical hurts such-as arthritis, bruises, broken. bones: and: the: like.» bereavement and separation. No one can get’ through -life without the experience known as pain, but some are more afraid of it,than others. If would seem true also that in trying to dodge pain one can sometimes increase the eventual load of it. Tranquilizers, and. various. nar-> cotics.- have great..value..in’ emergencies but are sometimes” |:Consider - the words of the “Brophet: 2 ‘and in-the forgetting the” “hurt disappears. This is a great. truth which ‘can be’ used. by . grownups, too. There is a. very useful therapy, also, in learning to “let it hurt'’, by which is meant. to. let go that tenseness - with _ Which we hang.on to ourselves ‘when pain comes our way. The | ‘usefulness of this can be learned in smaller things. and through practice will be found helpful in more serious trouble, 9 The: “human ~-mind HEAT ED ECIALIZING IN FURNITURE — BOATS — ETC, 2060 Mitts RD. Taxes have you on the ropes? A linle fancy footwork will bring you to the nearhiy office of HH &R BLOCK «The Income COMPLETE RETURNS Sidney On Sunday afternoon, March 21, June Beattie and Kelly Green co-hosted a shower.at the home of the latter. in honour of. Miss Sandra Black, April bride-elect. Dogwood _ brooches were presented to Sandra and Mrs. G. 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