Page 10, The Herald, Monday, November 20, 1978 Dear Abby * DEAR ABBY: We don’t go to church. Instead, my husband and I and our three children sit down to a hearty breakfast on Sunday morning and afterwards have a friendly discussion around the bréakfast table. We talk about school problems, family gripes and relations with relatives and friends, We support each other in overcoming bad habits and faults and come to an understanding about allowances, TV watching, homework and chores. Then we seek ways to improve family life and ways to contribute to ow community and our nation, We believe that God's spirit ia within us (all) and that ours are helping hands which can be used to make this borhood children have’ spirit evident here on earth. Recently, some of the ne been calling our children atheists" because we don't go to church, They are shocked and upset and don't - know what to answer, Do you in your wisdom have an a riate answer? peop ATALOSS . DEAR AT: How is this:."We are NOT ‘alhelats.' We accept the existence and influence of fiod in our lives. But to us, God's spirit is within all of us, and we offer helping hands which can be used to make this spirit evident here on carth.” . (P.S. In my opinion, yours ls a stronger religious commitment than many church-goers make. But that, too, is their business.) DEAR ABBY: SHELDON'S WIFE couldn't un- derstand why her husband came home with red smudges on his shirt and red hairs on his coat, Don't jump to conclusions, Abby. He may have been feeding Btrawberry jam to a cocker spaniel! CHATTANOOGA DOG LOVER DEAR LOVER: True. But there is always an outside chance thathe had been feeding a tine to a redhead. DEAR ABBY: I have been invited to an evening wedding at 6 p.m. A friend of mine tells me that I must wear a long dress. ; ; I do not own a long dress, and I have no intention of buying one. 11 must buy one for this occasion, ] cannot afford to buy a wedding gift. Please tel! me if you think 1 absolutely must get a long dress, or would a dressy short dress be ac- ceptable? NONAME PLEASE DEAR NO NAME: Wear what you have, and don't give it a second thought. What's a few inches of fabric more or less? Who sald the teen years are the happiest? For Abby's new booklet “What Teenagers Want to Know”, write Abby: 132 Lasky Dr., Beverly Hills, Calif, 90212. En- close $1 and a long, stamped (28 cents}, self-addressed envelope, please. . 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