People, Happenings, Wednesday, June 29, 1983. Page BI : : | ; | Things Break Inn doesn’t | welcome | wWiseries It’s. unpretentious restaurant. on Pat Bay Highway — but it may make .the .Guinness -Book of Records. oe net Ae 96 t tn tee eemta Jack Arnaud has no difficulty in proving his point that Keating ridge has a better ‘*micro-climate’’ than much of the Saanich Peninsula land in the Agricultural Land Reserve. - towards” low- -lying . locations ‘and. perature records. accumulates. there, while. higher =” Phere was slight fr Tost damage: to. “areas remain relatively’ warm.” ‘potato. plants i in: the: McHugh Valley oe The differences: are not greac a ind : : range. of. only. four celcius degrees i in: Centra Saanich from the highest to It’s -been broken into: 31. times. - with an estimated loss of $75,000 — — ‘no insurance payout after the fourth ~ break-in — but owner Mike Lewis “has come up witha way to capitalize on his: misfourtune. Like a name change. ... Exit the Terrace View Reciguran’, - Enter. The Break Inn, along. with framed. cops and robber. stories on ~. P the walls and burglary tools. . And the menu is meant to amuse as well as tell: customers what there is to eat. There are ‘‘hot’’ items like the Break and Enter (steak sand- wich), the. Smash and Grab (ground steak. spiced. for «the suspecting victim) or the Overniter — a fresh ~ baked bun, sizzle cooked .pattie, jailed with the. works. -An “‘editorial’’. tells customers ‘‘We’re. here to serve providing we were not robbed last: night.’ 22 : Lewis © hopes” ‘the unique name change, decor and: humor will give. een the business the break’ it needs. And Phe he’s submitted’ the story on «the ney ‘break-ins to the Guinness: Book of Records and hopes it will lead: to, ase ‘spot the popular. That's) ‘Incredible television show. SREP REE © The: 35: -year- -old. Lewis ‘says. hee believes. prospects are. bright. “We. on’t: quit, ‘we: won't: back:: ‘down v s just: not in our blood.’ . He say nee scholarship ‘she was int: really expect to : ak-ins. ‘ do’ if. 1 caueht someone breaking in? 1 think Td: put him to work here Rrouet she. ues her. ch sae ie ’ slim with : so many unemployed. h hased th Now, the $3,000. -annual of time e. purchased the. restaurant a ~ scholarship — - renewable each year. & November, 1980. There were times fo a maximum of four years or uni : when there was no coffee, knives | OP. a ‘first ‘degree. is ‘obtained nD _ has a forks — and~ ‘sometimes no- food: oe cowed the problem. x a le once someone spent four hours The attractive brunette will spend ae _ trying to break down the back door» -a year at the University of Victoria — ee the ron door had been left ~ studying first year sciences and then. Seb Rear: ty s on to the University of British ~~ He says ‘there. are other battles to” ‘ Columbia | ‘for. rehabilitation be fought, He needs permission for «~~ medicine and likely, a degree in’ ‘a larger sign and complains if his. © phiysiotherany as ‘her goal. ares sign is so small people | can’t read it Marie has had plenty. of ex: “that makes i it pretty tough," Pipi aces perience. already helping. people and = s “she’s been involved in medicine, one ‘parts! of. the’ 1e' MeHlush’ ai valleys it is May: ?. “The: break-ins. began: from. the Ok parade i is set for July 1, ‘moving “Osbourne says there will not be: any i of fat 11 a.m. down Resthaven and ~~ prizes awarded in this year’s parade a Beacon; Sidney. Kiwanis are cooking .. due. to a late start. in © getting : : 8 a sausage and pancake breakfast | “organized. ~The: .parade . on. the. “Marie Wallace, hap, = ith T 7 ; " hi Tey -, outside Sanscha — president Dennis . - peninsula dates..back. to. athe. late. ’ pPy " q: err) ox Se i ars ripe PS “"Varge. says the club cooked 1,600 — 1890s and: although time was short Sd eagle n Rowand Phioto "breakfasts in 1982 — and there'll be the Royal Canadian Legion, Sidney “way or another, for some years. For 0 at as : es eee: zodiac’ football all day off Beacon branch; the Army, Navy. and. Ai “the ‘last: two summers she's been - schelping” ‘out at Queen ‘Alexandra ‘3 and health. Daca ae Ave. wharf, aah - Force: Veterans and: the Knights of working with handicapped “Hospital for Children, 00 oe And Marie also shone. in “sports: "As well, fGemer ‘Sidney Days’ Pythias | were determined to! get _ youngsters at Camp Shawnigan | ais “Marie: likes: working: with: han: and fitness; She competed for two’ organizer. Eleanor’ Sowerby says _. something going. betel “and. she’ll: be. there again this ~ dicapped people and it seems, to-rune years. in. national: competition ines ‘she’ s arranged: for a Canada” Bir _ Alter the: pare th the veterans a re SEE eee in the family. ‘Wer older sister t me gymnastics and’ was” on” thday cake to be eaten 2 pam, at And she's. been’. ai “volunteer, - Patricia, 20 is at nursing. school. “> Parkland's. swin’, team, competin Sanscha. Hall and. she's; hoping to. vorker eal “Saanich | Peninsul Criteria. for, Terry: ‘Fox. scholar provincially for two years. : line up bingo, an antique’ car. show Hospital's physiotherapy depart i Marie! js the: only person on’ ¥ nent, Since, last November, and, did Vancouver, Island, to. be. awarded... tT the: “scholarship, ‘and. one of four it + But he ‘remains. ‘optimistic and. | claims he’ ll double his business in 30 - aE edays. The licenced. restaurant. seats. > fe LO. and.is open seven days. a week 7 ‘ ee m.- 10:30: “p.m. He's lured chef” / Anal’ ihe save Se lesan? The n, ULTS tO” everybody, spative people: are Not -egion Hall, 16 dancing. and. 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Ks definitions: off what’ is maceenrable ‘interest. evaluate the. issues: _of personal safety-in con- aire based upon the Following assumptions:. nL de img sp behaviours: oe on ‘ead “junction with asserting your: personal rights; What may in.” | _ #The integrity, rights, feelings and needs of all people Quite a number. of lines’ to follow and, we haven’ Leven. one sitiiation be a very terrific solution, may, in another be Walter, “are of équal value. Therefore, no ‘person has he right to beguii to draw the. pattern, It can: jook .a8- ifthe whole’: harmful or hurtful, Ph. D. take advantage of another, lp trying The core of this proces is deciding; not: just reacting: out ; picture is so complicated, and. tangled: that siving © eRehaviour is learned — assertiveness. 5 Is ‘ Set of le wrned to figure it out would bealuxury! ; of abit (IL never refuse dinner invitations), or. politery. 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