THE REVIEW

by Imogene

Dear Imogene

The other day I caught. my young son going . through my purse, and a few weeks ago he tried stealing a litthe matchbox car from the drug store. Whatever am | going to do about him?

Dear Worried I wish 1 could give you a simple answer’, but not knowing your son - or you - it’s extremely difficult to help. Many psychologists think a child’ may steal because of insufficient love at home - though ~anumber of children with happy backgrounds -are probably tempted to be light-fingered at one time or another. One ap- proach to this problem. comes from famous educator. A.S. Neill who comments: ‘‘A good parent - will’ not make~a- fuss -when Tommy steals 25 cents from mummy’s purse. It is the moral “parent who is so dangerous - the one who says: ‘You wicked boy.’ Didn’t you know you. were doing wrong?’ Neill. wonders how. many deliquents have -had ‘moral’ mothers! He feels it’s wrong to give a child a feeling of ‘guilt. Far better to say :‘‘Tommy, you pinched: my. 25 cents:..It.is mine .”’ than to take the attitude: he is a bad, sinful boy. Neill concludes by suggesting that the mother whose child tries to steal from stores sits down and-has a long, quiet think about her home, herself and her husband. Have any of. YOU had to face. this problem? If so, write and tell me how you coped.

GENUINE . Dear Imogene oe What do you do with a ‘husband ‘who will never apologise? Never ‘in the five years we’ve been married, has. my. husband ever. said ‘‘I’m sorry’, and how.much

it would mean to me if he did!

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ty. Mrs. King: that ‘she’ was’ not: ~ Commissioner at’ the time. the: then New Hall. was opened: ‘Mrs. -..-Gage was, and she resided at » othe official opening. vs «Thank: you. once again “and please feel free to call me at any time with more information, or with offers of pictures from the past for our album. My number is:

656-908 : a Betty _ Du Temple

930° Ardmore Drive, . oo RAR, 2, Sidney. RECORDING FACTS Editor, The Review, Sirs: It is a great pity that we seem -to have so many. facts - wrong

these days. Referring to the letter.

signed E.M.J, Primrose Group in your paper last week, more people seem to have facts after

an article is printed than before, group to.

It. might’ interest. this know that a whole. year went into the researching before the article was published, and also ads were

run asking for: information to

make the article much easier to piece together. oo Sinee val) the. in ~ peeeived.. was” combined,

memory we thought we had, The _ writer of the article, spent a great deal of -her own free time and

information = ob. ~ Viously same of us. do not have the:

I've thought. about. our little quarrels, and ‘surely I can’t always be wrong..Why doesn’t he ~ admit that .he isto blame sometime? I’ have been deeply hurt over his not apologising, and have -even seriously con- templated going home to mother (only thing is, my mother. said when I got married, “If ever you quarrel with ---,don’t come home to me!”’, and that’s the only thing that discourages me from leaving - I have no place to. go!) My husband does try to make up by

‘doing little things like drying the

dishes for me, and trying: to: be extra nice, but why, oh why, don’t he just say those ‘two important words sometimes - “I’m sorry.’”?

DEAR (You’re) SORRY!

Men who won’t. (or can’t?) apologise. are. maddening creatures, but it’s a fact of life to: be faced that some people (yes, women included!) just aren’t the apologizing type. Now, let’s be positive-if this is the only com- plaint’ you. have. about .-your marriage and -husband, you're one of the lucky ones. There are far worse ‘things you could have to contend with - drunkenness, infidelity. etc.

You. mention have little quarrels - be. thankful they are ‘just that, and not the screaming hurricanes some couples bow at each other! Actually, your husband sounds rather a sweetie - ‘being .“‘extra nice’, dishes.° Goodness, you're 'a: for- tunate women,” and <I think, secretly, you know it. I suspect that (like me) you’re apt to get -too easily upset, and make mountains .out ‘of molehills:. In ‘fact I think. you ‘wrote. to me on.

the. spur. of a. molehill-quarrel?- .

You’d. never do anything as «foolish-as to leave home! Haven't you seen the ad. for that movie -

7 “Love means never having to say

-you’re sorry!” Yes, LOVE.

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